"Ok, so how are we to do that???? If you are asking this question, then I guess I failed at making my point..."
No it's ok, you managed to convey the point well enough, only the point itself is inherently flawed. Not that I am in disagreement with most of what you say, but the existentialist philosophy and conclusion that everyone has to find his own way (or find his own way of letting it find you, or whichever way you want to put it) has always had trouble, not least from the obvious fact that exorting people to find their own way is in itself a universal rule, however general it may be.